I found this questionnaire and I thought I’d do it for fun. Here we go…
What does it mean to be content?
To me, being content means being generally happy that you have the basic necessities in life. Even if there are things that you are struggling with, you can be content because at the end of the day, you are healthy and you are loved. I think I’m a content person because even though I struggle with lots, there’s still lots of things that make me happy.
Do I listen more or talk more? Why?
LISTEN! I love learning new things. Other people’s perspectives, opinions, actions interest me. I learn from them. Everything I hear is information gathered.
What does it mean to nurture myself?
Anything I do for myself is nurturing myself, whether it’s buying materialistic things, working out, relaxing etc. It’s important to do things for yourself, even if you feel like you don’t deserve it.
Am I comfortable with my feelings? What makes me cry and laugh?
I am comfortable with my feelings most of the time. Although, some days my feelings are confusing or all over the place. But I never feel bad or guilty about how I feel. My friends make me laugh the most. We have such fun times together.
How much time is spent with other people and how much am I alone?
I spend a lot of time alone, but I like being alone. I like to do my own thing. I spend as much time as I can with my friends though.
Why do bad things happen? Who is responsible when something bad happens to me?
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, whether it is to teach a lesson, to make you stronger, to make room for something better. I also believe in karma. What goes around, comes back around. No one is responsible when something bad happens unless they had something to do with it, and if that’s the case, they better watch out.
How do I handle stress? Do I welcome challenges?
I believe I handle stress well. I just try to take one thing at a time, prioritize, and take breaks. I love challenges. They motivate me.
What is my unique gift to the world?
I would say this blog because I have readers from all over the world. Basically, my writing, advocacy, my strong beliefs on serious issues, and my need to make a difference in someone’s life.
If I could change one thing about myself…
It would be my inability to make decisions myself.
My biggest fear is…
Losing my friend(s). My friends are the most important thing in my life.
If I knew I could not fail, I would…
I have no idea… I guess make a move on one of my crushes?
I would like to be…
A professional motivational writer.
I’m glad I am not…
Lazy. Keeping busy is what keeps me going. I go to school, go to the gym, finish my school work right away, make sure I talk to my friends everyday and see them when I can, I write for this blog. It motivates me and makes me feel good about myself, and makes me feel less stressed. It is also a way to let my friends and readers that I genuinely care if I make time for them instead of watching Netflix all day.
People find me different because…
I am in a wheelchair. I don’t mean it in a negative way though. It’s just fact. Everyone’s different.
People find me difficult because…
I am impatient when it come to some things. Also because I rely on other people to make my decisions for me.
People find me easy to talk to because…
I genuinely enjoy conversations with people. I am interested, pay attention, and keep the conversation going. I am rarely on my phone while talking to someone.
Do I care what people think about me? Why or why not?
Unless I have a relationship with that person, no I don’t really care. Why should I care when I have people who love me? If someone has a problem with me, it’s their problem, not mine. I’m not here to please anyone.
My life is happy because…
I take care of myself. I workout, go to counselling, take meds, write, keep busy, see my friends when I can.
My life needs help because…
It’s crazy right now! I started seeing a new counsellor and we were talking and I didn’t really realize how much I have going on! Nothing extremely serious, but things I have to deal with. But i’m taking care of myself and accepting support.
…makes me happy because…
Friends, because they are there with me through the good and bad. I laugh with them, I cuddle with them, I have long convos with them. I can trust them. They make me feel like a good person and that I am loved. They don’t judge. They are the best thing in my life.
…makes me sad because…
Losing a friend, because they are such an important part of my life and I miss the connection we had. It makes me sad when I remember all the good times I had with them. I have lost a lot of friends in my life. It has made me realize people come and go as they please, and that’s scary!
I am loved because…
I love back. I genuinely love and care about everyone that I have a relationship with. It’s about mutual respect. If you’re there for me, i’ll be there for you, and hopefully vice versa.
“I love you, you love me, we’re a happy family.”
….I had to lmao
I had fun doing this! If you have any questions about me, what I do, or anything at all, leave a comment. I will answer almost anything. I’m a pretty open and honest person.